Sometimes it hurts a mother when a kid grew up to be someone he didn't expect him to be. It turns one dream of having a good citizen for a daughter, a nightmare...and whether we like it or not, almost instantly Mothers are dragged into scenes that sons and daughters create for themselves.
Just lately, a certain Ahcee Flores made herself a center of net bullying just by creating an unpleasant wish for all Bisaya during the eve of a disaster. All forms of hate comments were thrown at Ahcee which I personally think she deserves. However, what saddened me are the remarks directed towards her mother.
She must have spent sleepless nights taking care of her. All her days must have been tiring and stressful just to give Ahcee a good future. Just like any mothers in the world, for sure she wants Ahcee to be a good citizen, to be a good fellow who is sensitive enough to other people's feelings. Ahcee apparently didn't grow up the way she wants her to be. I can just imagine her agony right now unable to shield her daughter from these waves of hateful remarks only because she knows her daughter is playing a role on another side, the devil's advocate. Though she might know there is definitely that good side in Ahcee that she wished to redeem, she will find it difficult, now that Ahcee revealed her dark side to the whole world.
This might be a steel bar of judgement for Ahcee, but that devilish part of her which pushed her to make such remark towards her fellow countrymen is just telling us that there is something in her that is not right. Something that put her loving Mother into a very unfair situation. I personally think she doesn't deserve to be called a whore who did not teach Ahcee good manners. It is so unfair for Ahcee to be dragging her to this scene.
Why am I writing this here when this blog is supposed to be for mothers?
Why am I creating this post here when this blog is called Joys of motherhood? Where is joy in this situation?
Agony maybe, but not joy.....
That is exactly why? Because I want all sons and daughters to remember that their mothers do not deserve to be dragged into situations like this. Mothers are too loving that they deserve to get all the joys of having sons and daughters who would love them back...and dragging their names into a mess like this is such an ungrateful act. If Ahcee doesn't have a Mother...then that explains everything she said and everything she has done these past few days.
If you want to see more about Ahcees ungratefulness to the woman who bore her and took care of her, then check this.
http://www.facebook.com/ahceeflores
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